Let’s clear the air: Squirting is real—but it’s not a porn-exclusive superpower. Some women gush buckets; others barely dribble. And both are totally normal.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you (or your partner) can squirt, what that fluid actually is, or how to explore it without turning your bed into a water park, here’s your no-BS guide.
1. What Is Squirting?
- The fluid: A mix of watery liquid (from the urethra) and milky ejaculate (from Skene’s glands—aka the "female prostate").
- Not pee: Though it passes through the urethra, squirt fluid lacks urea and creatinine found in urine. Science confirms it’s not the same as peeing.
- Volume varies: Some women release a teaspoon; others soak the sheets (hence the towel advice).
Myth busted: You don’t need to orgasm to squirt—though it often happens together.
2. Can All Women Squirt?
Short answer: Maybe not.
- Studies suggest 10–54% of women have squirted at least once.
- Anatomy plays a role: Skene’s glands vary in size and activity (like prostates in men).
Good news: Even if you don’t gush, G-spot stimulation still feels amazing for many.
3. How to Try Squirting (Step by Step)
Prep Work
- Relax. Stress = clenched muscles = no squirting. Take a bath, meditate, or pour a drink.
- Hydrate. More fluids = more potential output. But don’t overdo it—you’re not a camel.
- Towel up. Lay down a waterproof blanket (or do it in the shower).
The Main Event
- Foreplay first. Get fully aroused—clit play, dirty talk, whatever revs you up.
- Locate the G-spot. 2–3 inches inside, front vaginal wall (curve fingers upward).
- Apply rhythmic pressure. Use a "come here" motion or a curved toy (like the Njoy Pure Wand).
- Add clit stimulation. Dual action = higher chance of squirt + orgasm combo.
- Push out (not in). When you feel the "need to pee" sensation, bear down slightly.
Pro tip: If nothing happens, don’t force it. Enjoy the ride—squirting isn’t the "goal," pleasure is.
4. Partner Play: How to Help Her Squirt
- Listen to her body. Speed/pressure preferences vary. Ask!
- Sync your breathing. Deep breaths = more relaxation.
- Eye contact. Sounds cheesy, but connection lowers inhibitions.
- Aftercare. If she squirts, she might feel vulnerable after. Cuddles > cleanup.
5. Myths vs. Facts
❌ "Squirting = pee."
✅ Fact: It’s a unique fluid from Skene’s glands.
❌ "Only porn stars do it."
✅ Fact: Everyday women squirt too—they just don’t post it.
❌ "You’re broken if you can’t."
✅ Fact: Many women never squirt and have mind-blowing sex.
TL;DR:
- Squirting is normal but not universal.
- G-spot + clit play = best odds.
- Relaxation > performance. No pressure, just pleasure.
- Towels are your friend. Trust us.
Bottom line: Whether you gush or don’t, your pleasure is valid. Now go forth—hydrated and curious.